This is because women love and respect confidence, and jealousy as well as being controlling is one of the most prominent signs of lack of the most unattractive insecurity. Ironically, the stronger the guy’s feelings are toward the girl he is with, and the fewer girls he has been with, the more jealous he is likely to be. First, many guys expect their girlfriend to be perfect.
If a guy really likes the girl he is with, he wants everything in that relationship to be perfect, which in his mind means – everything has to be his way because he knows best.
Some girls give in to jealousy and try to do whatever they can to please the guy.
A woman who is in a relationship with a jealous and controlling guy will sooner or later feel very unhappy and even suffocated.
As a result, she will start losing interest and attraction for that guy.
Some guys are so jealous and controlling that they don’t even let their girlfriends go out on their own with their friends, because they are afraid that some other guy will seduce her and take her away.
One of the most common reasons that girls break up with their boyfriends is that these guys become more and more jealous, controlling and possessive.
Male jealousy can have many forms, and handling it can be a serious challenge for the women they date.
This translates into having an expectation that the girl will be “perfect” in a way that they imagine that perfect to be to be, so they try to adjust who she is, how she acts, and how she lives her life to their own standard of perfection.
The second reason for this jealousy is fear of losing the girl, and the more special she is to the guy, the greater that fear is, especially if he thinks that she is one of a kind, and he will never meet anyone like her.
It’s only a matter of time, however, until the girl realizes that the reason the guy is so territorial about her is not because of who she is but because of his own insecurity about her and himself.
So, how do you deal with your boyfriend’s jealousy and control issues?