"Little white lies" on someone's profile may be harmless, but there are some creeps trolling the online dating services.
If you're going to cyber date, here are some screening tips to help you delete Mr. You may think that you know the person because you have been corresponding via email, but remember to use common sense.
Remember the scene in Bridget Jones' Diary when Bridget (Rene Zellweger) gets lured into sexually charged email banter initiated by her boss (Hugh Grant)?
Conducting e-relationships can be tricky because, as Bridget found out, email often allows people to become too casual too fast.
However, despite the convenience of online dating, there is a flip side that you should consider as you attempt to meet people via this medium.
Fein and Schneider say email is just like a phone call if it leads to a date. For one thing, it's very easy to be seduced by the informality of email or instant messaging.
Fantasy men typically chat up a storm and never ask the woman out. Most online dating services ask participants to fill out long questionnaires about themselves.
Wrong: Sherrie and Ellen also advise women not to "have sex" online.
Women usually put a lot of thought into these, but men don't.
A man may indicate that his favorite movie is When Harry Met Sally and he loves romantic walks on the beach. But, in reality, most men would choose to watch basketball on TV over the beach walk, and Dirty Harry is a more likely contender in the "Favorite Movie" category.
Fein and Schneider advise that "less is more" when writing a personal ad, email or instant message.
Too many intense feelings can scare men and women away.